Friday, March 16, 2012

Priests and nuns get stressed too!

Yes, folks because they are humans too!

From Agence France Press via


ROME - Often stressed, lonely and besmirched, Catholic priests and nuns are increasingly at risk of "burnout" and some of them could do with a little therapy, experts said at an unusual conference this week.

Some 200 priests and nuns took part in the symposium entitled "Priests On the Couch" at the Salesian University in Rome, where they were asked to fill in a detailed survey to find out what psychological problems afflict the clergy.

British professor Leslie Francis, who has researched clergy in Australia and Britain, said a majority -- around 59 percent -- were introverted, preferring scholarly studies and personal reflection to socialising[Hmmm....this is interesting.  Are most of the respondents academicians or monastics?]

Francis said members of the clergy often feel "exhausted" by the demands of their ministry and can feel frustrated in a society obsessed with show and image that does not respect the traditional humility of the clerical life[Because most people get now the impression that most of the clergy and religious they see on TV.]

"The Church attracts many introverts. Our job has to be to equip them better," said Francis, pointing out that one particular focus was in helping clergy to handle human interactions outside of the strictly religious sphere.

Many at the conference felt that it is difficult for priests in trouble to be able to "knock on the door" of therapists without being judged.

Giuseppe Crea, a priest and psychotherapist, said some priests were "150 percent" engaged in their pastoral work and risked a "burnout."

They became so obsessed with their work that they lost perspective and could fall prey to narcissism, ambitiousness and aberrant behaviour, he said.  [Hmmmm...can it be that one priest I know who is doing a great job in defending the Church that he himself cannot distinguish who is the enemy of the Church and who are fellow Catholics that he is quick to blow his top off?]

Jesuit priest Hans Zollner, who organised an unprecedented Vatican conference last month on clerical child abuse, said that integrating priests' "psychological and spiritual dimensions" would help prevent such problems[ money making venture for MST and Euntes!  Bunch of pseudo psychiatrists.  LOL!]

The theme was raised publicly last year in Italian director Nanni Moretti's film "Habemus Papam", in which a psychologist is brought in to help the newly elected pope, who has suffered a breakdown and is treated in secret.

Conference participants also deplored the secondary role afforded to women in the Catholic Church [wha?!?!?!]  and said that priests should have more contact with female instructors during their training to make them more open to diversity.

The seminar looked at issues such as how a priest should react if someone seeking pastoral help makes a pass at him, if people should rat on a nun with a secret drink problem or if stern superiors cause depression among new curates.

"In Africa, when a priest goes to a psychologist people say he is crazy or distance themselves," an African priest told AFP on condition of anonymity.

"We are always a media target but we are also men. Who do we talk to?"

Fabrizio Mastrofini, editor-in-chief at Vatican Radio and co-author of a recent book entitled "Priests On the Couch", said that members of the clergy "need a rounded human education as much as they need bread."

Lucetta Scaraffia, a historian who writes for the Vatican's Osservatore Romano daily, said she had met inspiring youngsters training for the priesthood who then struggled to fit in with the Church's "extremely conformist world."

She said the Catholic culture they entered was "closed in on itself.[Lots of double meaning words there.]

Instead of books on family and Christian sexuality, future priests would be better off reading lurid novels that describe real life, she said, adding: "It would be more useful to know about the history of the sexual revolution."  [Smell a rat named Sigmun Freud out there?]


Hey, how about a relaxing book entitled Spiritual Exercises?  or Secrets of a Devout Life?

Good grief!

I notice most people gang up on their priests after Mass.  This is both good and bad, people.  Good because it shows how we honor the gift of the Sacrament of Holy Orders that these once ordinary men now possess.  They would not gang up on an ordinary man, or if they are TV or movie celebrities.  Would you expect the same kind of reaction if the priest has been laicized?  Nope.  And it is bad in a way since: 1. It boosts their narcissism, ambitiousness and aberrant behavior!  2.  Priests might be too burned out after celebrating a lot of Masses in a single day that some people just don't care that they keep on pestering them with a lot of questions and requests.  

It is our duty also to care for our priests and not to abuse them with silly requests.

One visit for a spiritual direction is enough, don't do it on a weekly basis.  If you want it that way, see a snitch.

Don't ask a priest bless any thing that you can think that he can bless.  It can be annoying, just as a friend-priest laments.

Pray for them.  Don't spoil them with too much attention and gifts.  Give them just what they need.  Don't always take them to eat-outs and vacations.  They are needed more in their rectories.  Tell them kindly if they are having too much of something, like too much TV exposure.

It bloats their ego.

HEY!  Who put that there?!


  1. Nothing is harder for a priest who administer the Holy Sacrament of Confession for longer hours. St Pio of pietrelcina stayed for at least 8 hours in the confessional. Imagine the pain that he bears not physical but emotional pain.

    I guess if a priest or a nun is not preoccupied of wordly things he/she will not "burnout" from their work.

    But financial problems really can burn you out.. LOL